Wife and I were chatting today and came to an interesting realization. Exactly 50% of our full swap encounters with couples have been unsuccessful. By unsuccessful I mean one of us did not have sex and the other one did. The reasons range from the other man not being able to perform or the other woman getting cold feet. We have no hard feelings and are still friends with all of them…but we realized that that is the difference in the success rate; we got to know these couples well before playing.
Our best, and frankly, only true full swap experiences are with strangers at clubs. I can tell you nothing about these couples besides a generally physical description.
Not necessarily looking for advice on this, just something I thought I’d share as it’s interesting that it is so black and white for us. Also curious if anyone else has a similar experience.
I apologize. I wasn’t intending to insult but realize that it could very well be taken that way. I was just pondering based on females getting cold feet since lack of chemistry is usually why we see that happening. Sorry about that. Be well.
Are you a 9 to 5 couple (she's a 9, he's a 5)? Maybe couples are attracted to your Mrs and then the other Mrs isn't so interested in your Mr. The erection problems are unfortunately par for the course.
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