Let me start by saying a i am a single black woman. Yes all relevant lol

Attended Trapeze FTL Saturday night for the first time. Previously attended a different swingers club with an ex but it did not come close to how elegant, sexy, and clean as Trapeze FTL. As a single a woman I checked their site to see if any restrictions but there were none. I did not know it was important to check the events because it was couples night lol. I attended with a girl friend but I'm an extrovert after a few drinks so I had no problem sparking conversations with ppl around me. I did notice a few things and have some questions:

1) Are single women, I don't identify as Unicorn, welcomed on most nights? 2) Is connecting important to couples at a swingers club? 3) Met a female half of a couple and she was friendly but stated she was very insecure about watching her husband f**k someone else...is this common? 4) I don't have issues with race but 1 guy made it obvious he had an issue with it (no biggie everyone has their preferences) but he seemed interested in BBC for his wife (Again no biggie) I'm curious is this common? I need to know how to approach or give signs to be approached 5) Do you connect with ppl prior to going? Like on SDC? 6) The towels supplied are not comfortable lol, can you bring your own if it's white? 7) Which nights are the best to attend? 8) Also, the dj was great! Haven't danced like that since college days. Does anyone go there just to dance? Lol

Unfortunately, my friend wasn't feeling it so we left. Had an amazing night but unfortunately all my condoms came back lol. Definitely want to go again but would like to make sure I use my condoms lol

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