For context my partner and I are brand new to this and to be blunt I am on the slightly curvy side. I'm not big by any means but I don't look like I live at the gym either but most couples/singles are looking for just that. Or they're looking for FWB/ongoing flings and we just cannot promise that.

It's completely valid for them to have their preferences and I don't want to sound like I'm complaining, I understand it takes time to find the right people!

I'm wondering how people handle being rejected like that constantly? I'm usually a very confident person but being told I'm too heavy or ghosted by every potential is starting to sting.

I'm not trying to push things too quickly for the record, we've just been very active as of lately because we're excited that we found a play partner and I've always wanted to be with another woman.