My wife and I are very interested in the lifestyle. We've been married for 10 years, and have been monogamous the whole time. We both have wanted to share our sex life with others for a long time, just haven't had the time, or the support. We don't know anyone in the lifestyle. We're not super sure how to go about it successfully. We're interested in couple swapping, group play and bi-sexual experimenting. We're in our late 30's, both work, we have a 9yr old, always busy, both are heavyset but very active, don't smoke, occasionally drink, dabble with edible thc otherwise drug free, ride motorcycles, camp(idaho), watch movies etc.. We'd ultimately love to find a few couples to have longer term dating/sex lives with. And we're excited for the journey. Anyone that has good insights and pointers pm me please! We would like to have as much knowledge going into this as possible.