Hey guys,

I've opened up to my girlfriend this year that I was very interested in going to swinger clubs and try out the LS.

First time we went to a spa where we had sex together and one girl started kissing her on the neck and sucking her nipples. She just laid there not really reciprocating. Then we talked about it and she said she really enjoyed it.

Following that we went to a swingers club where she played the picky game, always having issues with something about someone etc. But there was a nice couple that we had sex with and we swapped. She started nagging because I was dirty talking the lady but overall it was a good experience.

Last week she suggested we got to the club this Saturday. We went and saw lots of action. I felt really turned on by the dark rooms and took her there. Halfway through she blurts out she's claustrophobic. I took her closer to the entrance and asked if she was ok. She said yeah.

A chubby older guy was rubbing her breasts and she felt uncomfortable so she just slid out and left.

We took a small break, went for drinks and on the dance floor I started rubbing her thighs and her breasts while making out. And a woman from another couple jumped on top of her SO and started getting frisky too. I asked her if she wanted to move closer to them so we could watch and play close (no swap).

She said she was uncomfortable with it. In a f* sex club. We moved back to a room and started having sex one on one. Some couples came and stared

There was this couple watching us and I was really turned on by her breasts. Eventually they came in and my gf and her started making out.

They made out for like 5 minutes before all of us decided to lock the door. I asked if she was ok with swapping and she just blank stared me again, not saying anything. I keep fucking her as the other couple starts getting frisky.

So I ask her if she'd like water and I'd go get it, because at this point I have no saliva. She said she'd go get it. After waiting like 10 minutes she comes back fully dressed saying she wants to go home.

I don't think I'm missing the hints, it feels more like she's not communicating at all and it's really frustrating.

We tried some apps and she's vetting everyone as if the guy in the couple is going to be her future husband and she doesn't want to get attached.

Am I wrong for thinking she's just socially inept for the LS?

What do you think the best course is?