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My wife (34F) and I (34m) have been skimming the lifestyle for years now. We are both straight and we have had pretty tight knit boundaries so weāve had limited experience with actually playing with other people. Weāre both straight and she never finds the other men attractive at the events and parties we go to. Iāve never wanted to go after anyone else and just leave her in the dust. We got into it during Covid and she loves exploring the parties and dressing sexy and meeting ppl but she is constantly harassed by bisexual women and itās a turn off for her and I donāt really want to play without her. Sheās recently brought up the idea being a cuckquean. It fits our dom sub dynamic and makes sense that she might like that but how do I find someone whoās willing to be in this dynamic with us. She doesnāt want the woman to touch her at all but the idea of being demeaned and told āIāll show you how you supposed to do itā kinda turns her on. Of course we wonāt know until we try but we attract a lot of couples with bi women and guys because she is absolutely gorgeous. I just donāt know how to proceed. Iāve only seen this depicted in pornography and I donāt see a lot of cuckquean talk in these threads either. Any guidance is helpful. Not only are we āunicorn huntingā the unicorn only gets to be with the male half and the female half will watch. Should we give up on that fantasy or continue in trying to make it real.
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