Wife has all the normal reservation about going into swing clubs ie multiple people being there, possiblity of being recognised or being spotted going into club ect. She also doesn't want a digital fingerprint ie swinging sites, chats and meets. She really likes the idea of having arranged casual sex with others but not sure about the reality of it. I'm enthusiastic about the idea and try to encourage it. Obviously she isn't a virgin but she hasn't had sex with many men either. She hasn't had sex with anyone but me in 10 years. She's worried that if she has sex with another man she might regret it after.......or she might not. I'm thinking regrettable sex is easier to handle if theres no eye contact or conversation beforehand. If it's a dark field, shades on, hood up, clothed, skirt up and knickers off. She gets fucked by someone iv arranged. If she doesn't like it and doesn't want to try again , it's like it didn't happen. He doesn't know who she is, what she looks like, what her voice sounds like. Soon as he's done we leave. She has past spoken of liking the idea of dogging with a little enthusiasm although it hasn't been mentioned for awhile now. I think it'll be a good entry level for me as well. Obviously iv never seen my wife have sex with anyone except me so it's a big deal for as well. No eye contact, no chit chat, face covered. Then after we can talk about it and see how we feel and if she could do it in a more controlled situation.