If the wife (me) of the married couple is, quite literally, bisexual but has absolutely no interest or sexual attraction to any other male but hers, who it's also a cuckquean and loves to see her husband fucking another woman, with our without her own involvement, are they swingers? I am getting mixed ideas from things I read. Are we part of this lifestyle group or are we an all too commonly frowned upon group of our own? When the couple is wanting another man to join the tryst, they seem pretty accepted by all as a "swinging" couple. But when is a woman being sought, they're just unicorn hunters. Why is this? I get that there are woman out there that only do it to make their husbands happy and wouldn't normally have sexual relations with other women (and that's garbage). But what about those of us that have before him, would again if he weren't in the picture anymore, and want to while he is? Why are we looked down upon?
Swinging isn’t the umbrella to all combinations of sexual experiences. I would say ethical non-monogamy is a more appropriate banner. Cuckold, cuckquean, hotwife, stag and vixen… these are swinging adjacent under the ENM umbrella.
This isn’t a good take. If my wife consents to her partner, I am not owed consent by her.
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Even if we all agree to share, that can change at any time. Your comment definitely reads like a quid pro quo arrangement, and that isn’t a given. And you’re suggesting that because it’s not specifically mentioned as a term that consent isn’t relevant to our conversations in this lifestyle. Yikes.