Literally just joined cause my wife has informed me of a group of lovely people here. We are definitely into the life and wanna see what it's all about but I wanna make sure this won't change us too much so I guess just asking for beginner tips I guess we are fairly young and after a cursory glance I noticed we were fairly young in comparison to some who play in this kink. So what should we know or do before hand to help prepare us for this journey we are taking.

Added info I guess that maybe relevant me and her have built up good basis for conversations and have both agreed we want this and wanna grow together this way

I once thought I was polyamourous (sorry for bad spelling) and never explored it but developed the thought maybe this was what I was craving

We both have troubled pasts so triggers of previous relationships are still present and we are discussing them to try and knock some of these issues out

Not really sure what else might be relevant but we are Dom sub but not sure how this is relevant if it is so info on that would be nice