I'm really eager to try it as soon as possible. My wife blows hot and cold over it. Sometimes shes like "babe I need to fuck someone soon" Other times shes like "we will talk about it next week" When we first talked about it, she was very up for it as soon as it can be arranged. Two years later and she on and off about it. Iv asked her many time if she really wants to do it and she's always replied that she does. She has said that she's stalls on the idea because she not 100% ok with me being with another woman. Iv told her she would be to busy getting dicked herself to care and she partially agrees. We both have our reservation but I'm sick of always talking about it and never even dipping our toes. Another fear that she has is being seen going into a club or bumping into people that we may know.. Personally that doesn't bother me a great deal. Another fear is she thinks people will be turned off by her baby pouch. Iv assured her that the club will not be full of super model and no one will care about it. It's not even big. Anyone else can relate and tell me how long the fear and talking process was for them.