My ex wife and I dabbled in the lifestyle for the majority of our marriage. We were active because we went to a lot of parties but in almost a decade we only had 4 full swaps and 10 or so soft. We had a bunch of FFM's and saw a girl regularly for a couple years. Lots of making out at parties with people and my wife would date women solo. It was fun, haha.
I am currently single and haven't been dating seriously. I'm feeling good enough where I'm down for a long term thing and eventually marriage. I don't need to be in the lifestyle in my next relationship but then I'd need a partner with a very high sex drive like mine.
When would I tell someone I'm dating that I used to be in the lifestyle or do I just not bring it up? I wouldn't want to be caught by my partner eventually.
Once you've gauged her stance on such things that should determine if or when you reveal that part of your life
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