I am new to all this. My partner is twice my age (25) . I like young men but prefer older ones. I'm very experimental, yet still young and inexperienced and still get very self conscious. I'm honestly just looking for advice. I have only been to one club and it was very overwhelming and I couldn't stay long. I really enjoy sex and my partner but I'm not sure if I'm comfortable enough to make this a normal thing.( visiting clubs) we've had 2 different 3 ways but with 2 guys one girl. I think my problem is I have a problem involving other women. But I want to be able to be free and not jealous or self conscious. Again I think I'm just looking for some outside perspective. That's why I joined this group. Thanks in advance.