Basically what the title says; we play together but don’t always assume there needs to be a 4 way attraction, I’m bi but don’t require Bi play in a swap…

I’m finding that my husband is not picky about who he’s willing to fuck like… at all. And I know sometimes in the LS you make concessions, and other parts of people can be attractive besides their physical form. I’m not picky at all and am fully aware of the different kinds and levels of attraction. But his willingness to stick his dick in basically any girl who offers makes this not fun for me and feels icky. Most recently he’s been actively pursuing a girl on Reddit that I do not in the slightest bit understand the appeal personally, and from what I know about his “preferences”, he wouldn’t find her appealing either. Yet he’s still actively pursuing it for us. When I asked what his opinion on her was (not in a pointed way but genuine curiosity), he said she seemed “easily accessible”… but like, if all he wants is easy access to sex then let’s just stay home? I guess I don’t understand, and it’s kind of messing with my view of him and messing with my idea of how he sees me, plus I find it kind of gross and rude that he’d hit on someone he didn’t actually desire just because it’s easy... Can anyone give me some perspective that he hasn’t? I just can’t get behind fucking someone for the sake of it being easy when I’ve already got an easily accessible fuck at home?

Adding here, we have lots of fulfilling sex and conversations. This is a lack of understanding not a lack of communication on the topic.