We are a couple in our mid thirties looking to meet others in the lifestyle. We don’t have a lot of experience and are really struggling to find a safe place to explore our desires. We got really lucky early in our experience and met a really great couple. Both of us were not in the lifestyle and ended up jumping in together. Now we are on our own and aren’t sure where to meet people or put ourselves out there in a comfortable setting. The clubs seem a bit extreme for us. As we are a bit more vanilla and shy when in a public setting like that. And I guess bars aren’t really the right place to meet people either.

Hopefully you can help us shy Canadians out. Thank you for your help and expertise. Truly appreciate it.