I’m part of a couple who are mid and late twenties and whenever we go to our local club we tend to be the youngest in there.
When talking with people they usually say they wouldn’t play with anyone under 30. This is always said before they find out our age, as they expect us to be in our 30’s.
We’re happy playing with people of any age older than us but often feel like we’re too young for the people at our club.
So my question is, what are your lower and upper age limits when at a swingers club?
Depends on how you present.
We've declined play with 20 somethings which were hot messes, but also played with a few that seemed very grounded.
We've declined play with older couples for the same reason.
Younger just has more change of "hot mess" with lack of life experience, newbie nature, not sure of what they want etc.
We usually connect with couples that are in their 30s or early 40s. We do go younger and have attempted to go older. I have found that when I try with older men (who I find really attractive) they almost always have ED issues, so I tend to go younger now.
We don't have an upper or lower at a club, it's all about mutual attraction and chemistry for all involved.
Many are surprised at our ages when it comes up, which is why online where ages are posted our experience is the majority of people have an unconscious bias. We aren't an outlier, it is just our human nature to use age as a measurement for various reasons.
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