OK so to keep it positive fat bottom girls and sharing face pics really do make the rocking world go round. Thank you to the brave souls that share face pics of both people.
But guys, please hear me as an active (aggressive?) ENM woman: smile! If you look like a serial killer in your face pic I'm 100% less likely to want to meet you IRL. There is a tic tok out there where a relationship expert interviewed a former Navy Seal about the appeal of combat veterans to certain women (MEE!!!). His take is certain women want to know you are capable of violence but instead choose to show kindness and empathy. That dichotomy is a massive turn on. So please show us a smile when you share face pics, men. And it goes without saying we do want to see your eggplant. But please wait until we ask to be introduced.
Thank you for attending my TEDtalk.
And past any sexual attraction issues, it is just extremely off putting to encounter anyone's social media accounts where the guy doesn't smile, as it screams toxic masculinity issues... Bonus points to the male fathers that don't smile in any pics with their kids. Shit is pathological to me.
Men smiling not being considered attractive is one of those things that gets circulated online, and its apparently based in some truth.
Women consistently rated the proud men highest, with a rating of four to five. They rated happy men about one point lower. Younger women rated happy men lowest, while older women tended to rate happy and ashamed men equally and neutral men lower.
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