My friend wanted to have a threesome with another guy. She has only played once before and I've been in several threesomes with different couples. So the first time I found a guy to come over and play with us she put his needs ahead of mine. So I didn't say anything about it. We had a different guy the second time and was performing Oral on him and and asked me to wash the lube off of myself and when I returned and I stood next to him she completely ignored me and continued to perform oral on him without even touching me . So today I said that as the host I feel that I should be put ahead of the guest. Am I right to feel that way ? We are not a couple but friends with benefits but I was the guy that found these guys on the Internet. It wasn't the guy's fault but is there some type of etiquette