We are looking for a regular 3rd for splitroast fun and are concidering my (his) Bestfriend as a potential candidate, we enjoy the idea and so does my Bestfriend. But just curious to hear your options and or experiences. Concidering we have a great friendship and he is close to my whole family. Is it to risky??
There are pitfalls with friends. If it works out great but...
1 - More likely to develop feelings for them, or them you. You know them well and thats how emotions start.
2 - More likely if it goes back to involved outside people like family and other friends.
3 - Best friends are hard to find and if it goes really badly may lose them.
Its not that it couldn't work but the risks are higher for drama than some rando guy you find as a sex toy. I'm not even saying DON'T DO IT, but you have to weigh things out in your head, risk reward style and find where you are comfortable.
As a long time swinger and older man, I could do this without a problem, I know the issues. If I were 25 probably not.
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