So a little back story, my wife has been talking about opening up our marriage in the aspects of it will be just about sex, due to not wanting us to get “boring”. Although we are both busy with work, we are still very happy with each other and still make time for one another as much as we can but our sex life has taken a hit a little bit. It would be us having our own individual dates and not including each other if we were to explore. We have talked about what kind of rules we would have, boundaries, our feelings, and what we kind of expect from it. Although I am open to the idea of this happening, it’s still in my mind the multiple conversations that we had in the past where she was very adamant about NEVER going down this path. I understand people change their minds but I don’t know what to think about her going from being so strongly against it to her bringing it up more and more often in conversations. My question is has anyone gone through something similar or how do you guys think I should proceed?