I may be missing cues here, possibly bc I’m slightly on the Spectrum, but I have no idea if people are flirting with me or being mean or I’m being ignored bc no one is interested. I never had trouble finding a boyfriend - I was always pretty enough and in decent shape- same with my spouse.
We are new to the lifestyle and spent the weekend at a resort and I’m fairly certain people were talking about me but not to me? Like random comments as I walked by like - like my squinting due to lack of sunglasses, or breast implants and floating ability. Unsure if I imagined this and it’s paranoia - people were being mean girls - or this is how people flirt. Please help. I’m so confused why no one talked to me or us. Maybe I don’t understand how to flirt in this lifestyle.
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What happened when you talked to people?