I get the dress to impress with slacks, nice shoes( for me those are my dress boots), and a nice shirt. Smell good and groomed, you the works.
Here is my question why not wear a sexy jock strap or something like a male thong? Why not do essentially the same thing as women do and wear almost nothing?
If a guy does wear something like above mentioned he is looked down on or it is to be funny. Seems to me it like a double standard.
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If you think it's sexy wear it and don't be a follower hoping other guys do. It's called peacocking and it works. Stand out.
I'll wear what I like you wear what you like.
Here is my question why not wear a sexy jock strap or something like a male thong?
Because most women don't find this sexy.
Great discussion thread! Love reading all the responses. As someone who is NOT gay nor bi (hetero flexible label doesn't scare me though) and as someone who enjoys wearing thongs and other sexy male attire, I have learned the swinger group is not very accepting of it. As the night progresses, just like my GF does, I like to shed my clothes as well when we're at a club. That said, my GF likes my thongs and such so I could care less what others think as we're mainly there to please each other.
Point of interest though.... Maybe if more guys did dress in something sexy or something that made them feel that way, they might be encouraged to work harder at taking care of their bodies! It did for me!
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I'm a straight man, I don't care what you wear. Straight men want to fuck my wife and she doesn't think its sexy for guys to wear thongs or little shorts. If a majority of women were into it I'd be thonging it out, but its very niche for women.
This topic actually comes up a lot and the vast majority of women I've played with (aka my type and and I am their type) don't find it attractive. A thong doesn't add sexy to a man, if he's sexy it makes him slightly less sexy, and if he's not super sexy it makes him look objectively much worse. Thats the gist from women I know.