I didnt know if this was better tagged as general discussion, getting started, or clubs, but here we go. We all go through moments of self doubt. My wife (f35) is incredibly beautiful but lately she doesn’t feel it. I mean, she really is gorgeous but she thinks she’s gained a little weight (which I actually love) and doesn’t feel happy about it. Now, I (m38) have devised a plan to surprise her with a trip to a club this Sunday that has a “Sunday-fun day” atmosphere. I’ve got the babysitters on hand, the outfits chosen, our pre brunch spot picked out, everything but I havent told her what exactly we are doing. Now we’ve played privately but never in a club. I want to encourage people to compliment her and pursue her. I think it would give her a huge confidence boost. Im into the idea of on mmf but I don’t want to limit ourselves to that. What are some suggestions you guys have to really emphasize her beauty and really push the experience? Any signals or cues to that we are interested? Also, what are some good things to bring? Do people usually BYO condoms? Wipes? espérate outfits? Thanks in advance!