My wife and I have been married for 5 together for 14. During some of our more sexually charged conversations she’s made mention of certain desires that surprised me a bit.

I’m an exhibitionist/voyeur at heart but have had little opportunity to fulfill those (kinks?) shes said somethings along the effect that she would also like to watch and he watched. She however has expressed that she wants to be watched in a way that she doesn’t necessarily know she’s being watched or that they can’t make out any distinguishing features about her.

Does anyone know of any soft ways of exploring this. She’s made mention of parallel play where another couple is in the room doing their own thing but I’d like to ease her into her fantasies I want her to be explorative but not pressured.

Help a baby aspiring couple out please