So my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for just a few months. We are learning a TON and having a great time.

There is a club that we really enjoy in our city and we love meeting new couples when we go but havn’t ever done a planned meetup.

The club has a Reddit sub and since my wife and I are both active redditors we will engage in the sub from time to time.

A couple found us online through the sub and recognized us from the club.

We appreciated being approached in this way and were definitely flattered and somewhat interested.

They mentioned they were very attracted to us and were open to swapping but additionally that the wife from the couple would be interested in joining us solo.

We aren’t interested in any cuck/hotwife scenarios and we don’t feel that is what they are suggesting.

My questions are. Is that a common proposition? Any husbands here who enjoy the same thing what did you enjoy about it? Any wives who enjoy that, what do you look for in these situations? During the encounter what would the uninvolved member of the couple be doing? If there are any couples who have been in the situation what was the energy like? Was there an added awkwardness with one member being absent?

Thanks in advance for sharing any experiences!