Wife and I are both thinking about going to a swingers club for the first time. Were thinking of going to The Korral for the first time in central PA.

The korral is nice.

We’re both 30 and attractive but I definitely deal with a lot of anxiety.

Congrats. Some will find you attractive and some wont. And you'll need to offer something appealing

Right now we’re hoping to find a female partner for her to play with. She doesn’t want me involved with the other female and I’m okay with that.

You won't find many single women at clubs and the ones there are often with a couple they play and arrived with. And they typically (not always) want experienced swingers offering FFM. So this is a pretty unappealing offer. Is your wife experienced with women and incredibly bold and forward.....mighty work. But still odds are super low.

We’re also okay and looking forward to parallel play and the women can play with each other but return to their own partners.

Thats more likely.

That being said, is this something we would be able to find at a swingers club?

Its not what most are looking for.

Since we are not open to full swap or soft swap, should we approach others or wait for others to approach us? All in all we know what we want and our limits, just wanted some tips on how to go about it.

You can wait for others to approach if you want. They might not. You might need to be outgoing, charming and mingle. Even double since you arent offering what is appealing to most people.

We are okay if we don’t find anyone and just enjoy each other that night.

Thats the most likely scenario.