My partner and I want to get into this, and are both super nervous about going to clubs. What should we expect? We really want to explore sex with other people, but he's also worried about being rejected (despite being crazy hot).
You will be rejected and you will reject others. Its not a brothel and one person's hot is another person's hard no. No one is so universally appealing that they never face rejection. And some people at clubs aren't even open to sex with others.
Is this a club in the U.S.?
You can expect...
You'll need to purchase a membership. Some offer one week or one night memberships. And you need to pay an entrance fee. It will be BYOB. You may need to check your booze with a bar tender who will serve you. Bring cash for a tips.
The club website will explain all this.
There will be a "club" are. Sex may or may not be allowed. There will be a space for sex. Probably with private rooms for sex.
More respectful people than you’ll find at any bar. Sexy dressed people that will mostly keep to themselves and their friends unless spoken to.
A variety of shapes and sizes of people enjoying themselves.
An opportunity to play at your level of comfort.
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