Over the weekend my wife and I decided that we would invite a single guy over for a MFM . The profile was posted on SDC and heās been a member for over 10 years. Weāre older so we tend to be more comfortable with older men because they are more respectful and generally know what theyāre doing. The guy arrived on time and the pictures matched his profile so all good . Iāll skip over the good stuff and move right to end when I got upset and threw him out of my house. A few rules are the base of all things lifestyle which is wear a condoms and ask before cumming where they want it . I supplied the condoms and we used a lot of condoms non stop but at the end without anyone knowing he took off the condom and came in my wife ! I was in shock and tried to stay calm but what kind of person would intentionally do something like that. This is the message I sent him this morning
Iām in complete astonishment. We used condoms all night long and then you thought it was okay to fuck her without one and to top it off actually cum in her . I remember your exact words when you asked ā should I cum in you or your mouth ā . Nobody would imagine that you would actually penetrated her without a condom ! Itās completely irresponsible, unethical, disrespectful, and may even be criminal . You ruined our night and possibly our week. I didnāt even hear an apology ! Of all our years in the lifestyle this was a first time someone did this . Itās unheard of
Sheās up there in age but sheās still getting her period
Iāll send you screenshot of his profile
No reply. Iām a ex fighter and wanted to kick is ass but my wife would have freaked out
Yes I thought of that but why would we use an entire box of condoms and then not when he finished ? I mean you have to be an idiot. Weāre obviously using them to avoid STDās and possibly of him cumming in her . This wasnāt a quick fuck . This went on for a couple of hours. We kept on changing positions and constantly replacing condoms
Iām waiting for the customer service at SDC to respond before posting it
Male / female/ male . In other words a threesome SDC is a swingers site
The guy was super nice and considerate all night . Older business type. Weāre done with meeting single men without a referral and definitely a mistake on my part
The guy could act like the greatest dude ever in a meeting before and still do this.
Are you kidding me. I fought mma for 7 years. I could have broken him and probably killed him within minutes. It took a lot to just let him leave. My wife is the complete opposite of me , she is super soft spoken and doesnāt like violence so if she saw me breaking this guys down it would have scarred her for life . I made a choice
If you donāt mind me askingā¦. How did it go down? Like was he about to go in and your husband called him out? I could see how if you were doggy style this could happen without ever knowing
Update, Iām looking at my options . My wife wants to put it behind us and move on but at the same time I donāt want this to happen to others . My aim is not to break any rules or laws . Either way weāll be taking a break from the lifestyle until we can free comfortable . I canāt be answering the overwhelming amount of messages Iām receiving. I do have family responsibilities and a job . Thanks everyone for your overwhelming support. š
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Yes I will , thanks for the reminder