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As the post title suggests, I'm late 40's curvy woman and I'm considering going to a Lifestyle club solo.
I have a long-term partner that I've played with. We've played with friends in their home, and we've gone to a club and a solo guy joined us for a bit, but we didn't play with anyone else.
I'd like to find men who want to play in front of their partners but not as a group since I'm not into women.
How do I go about this? I keep reading that women should approach women, but that feels weird to me since I have no interest in playing with the women. Shouldn't I just go straight to the men? The guy who joined us approached and asked me and then I got the "nod" from my partner.
I know the basics: - let staff know i'm solo - get my own drinks - bring condoms and lube - say No early and bounce if anything is off
Any advice is welcome. TIA!
It can happen. Some couples like to freelance while in the club. So just go and feel it out. You can say to wife “your husband is so sexy!”.
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