We’d like to visit an adult space where we’d be likely to run into other Bisexual and queer couples who would be open to play on site. We’re a married bi couple who are looking for other bi couples who are also interested in switch vers group play (Even if that’s mostly just making out and groping).

Having read through comments and posts about most of the local spots, however, I’m left with some questions:

1. Is Bi contact between guys at local clubs frowned upon? I’ve seen several mentions lately that most clubs don’t allow or discourage bisexual displays between men, is this true? Are there some clubs that are friendlier than others?

2. Which club has the largest queer presence/visibility? Is androgyny a staple or even a visible aspect of the crowd at any of the clubs?

3. Our vibe is much more cottage core/boho but it sounds like guys are expected to be pretty suburban bland at most clubs, is there one that has a relaxed dress code that people actually take advantage of?