Hi everyone! We are headed to one of our first lifestyle events (NSW in Lake of the Ozarks) and there are two nights with a theme that I am hoping you can help me (early 40s male) out with some suggesting on attire.

I have a muscular build and visible abs for the first time in my life so I really want to take advantage and show it off and hopefully attract a little attention.

One night is "Playboy Mansion, Dress to Impress" - basic googling lead me to this one, but I'm not completely convinced: https://www.spencersonline.com/product/adult-tuxedo-playboy-bunny-costume/250553.uts

Another night is "Sexy Prom" - I haven't spent a ton of time thinking on this one. Ideas?

Rest of the time we'll be hanging out on the lake, pool parties, and just general "fun" times. Any hot beachwear or accessories for either male or female? We can obviously go skimpy, but would love if there's anything unique.

Mainly looking for suggestions for male, but if you something great comes to mind on female side, please share!