We are a tight group of 4 couples. Me the husband wanted to raise the bar on our get togethers. I thought it would be really fun to hire a private chef and have them prepare a super sexy meal before playtime. I already reached out to a personal chef and shared my idea, let her know that I want to create a very sexy evening for our friends.

I shared we were in the lifestyle and that the ladies might be in lingerie and the possibility of some nudity. I definitely did not want to offend or make anyone uncomfortable.

She said she’s not a swinger, but thinks that it would definitely be something to cross off her bucket list.

Please help me come up with the menu. I’m thinking eating with fingers, sexy food. Im trying to surprise the wife, so the menu is on me. I did tell her the cheese plate can be avoided.