So, a question for the many single guys out there.

When you do find THE ONE some day, do you plan on becoming monogamous or plan to stay in the LS? (Not counting the third option of being forced to be in a monogamous relationship due to the wife's reluctance)

Asking because i have run into several couples at LS events where the guy used to be a single male in the LS, met the woman of his dreams, got married, and decided to attend LS events together to pursue his wife's bicurious fantasies (so, basically only looking for unicorns cuz the guy now has a One Penis Policy even though he had zero issues doing MFMs with other couples when he was solo)

They flirted with us but after talking a bit with them, it was clear that any sort of swap was off the table. Welp, no thanks, and we moved on.

Also saw a post in this sub by a single guy who reiterated the same thing (looking for couples to be their third but when others told him to go find a girl first, he was adamant that he'd be totally monogamous when he gets married/find his life partner)

Seems kinda selfish to me (i want you to share but i won't) but i guess i can understand that jealousy does come into play when you're emotionally invested in someone. And not everyone can overcome jealousy.

Is this how many of you feel? Just curious is all.