What is the general etiquette as far as giving and receiving validations? After a night out with a couple I will generally give a validation the next day. Most people just validate back on their own but have had a couple people (bear in mind the outings were great and everyone had a great time) and they accept our validation right away but didnāt validate back. Donāt get me wrong Iād get it if we had a negative experience but am I wrong in assuming it should just be common courtesy? Like our profile is fairly new and they actually do help us in the sense of giving other couples more confidence in making their decision to give a ānewbieā couple a chance. If they donāt leave one back if they accept ours is it acceptable to gently request them to please leave one back when they get some time?
We donāt like validations (we see them as a type of kiss and tell sometimes) so for that reason, Iād ask if you want one.
But be understanding if they donāt want one or want to give one!
SDC feels like a site where people would rather collect photos, likes and friends than actually meet in our area.
Same thing happened to us . The couple wasnāt even at our level and we gave them two incredible nights of sex and didnāt get a validation. Honestly Iām a little hurt , like WTF š³
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