My Wife (33) was in Palm Springs California for two days alone (two days and one night) to check on some of our properties in desert hot springs (our AirBnb rentals) . She went there on pretext of renewing short term rental permits.

In the evening she goes alone to the bar with two men (both neighbors) at 7:30 pm and stays with them in bar till 12 midnight.

On repeated questioning by me on her way back to sacramento, she tells me that she passed out in their car while they were driving her back to house (our rental). Claims nothing sexual happened. What are the chances something sexual happened? I am confused.

Of course she is married two kids, realtor wife of a Rich doctor and for the most part is a housewife.

For records - we have not dipped feet in lifestyle completely - just some exhibition sex only. No swap yet. I am concerned what may happen if we get in lifestyle. I see red flags already.

Thoughts ?