I've seen several guys over the years trying to figure out how to be a bull. I currently have general conversations with four different couples, and I've noticed a recurring issue. Often, a guy's first move is to bluntly say, "I want to [explicit] your wife." This is usually directed at the husband and it's often the first thing they blurt out.
When guys say creepy things like this, it's a huge turn-off for the husband. He doesn't want to subject his wife to something uncomfortable or disrespectful while trying to fulfill a fantasy of hers.
The key is to be honest about what you're looking for and what you expect, while also being respectful of their boundaries and relationship. Just approach the situation with maturity and respect, and you'll have a much better chance of making a connection.
The term “Bull” is an automatic “No” from us.
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