Often times there’s a silent etiquette but with swingers it really varies and is silent more time. Ofcourse the rules change per couple but often times there’s unspoken rules. What has a single male done either at a club or online that put you off as a couple?
Online they don’t read bios, or “before inboxing” post. When they do message it’s very low effort. I’ve litterally seen 100s of dicks since starting my page. Not one dicpic has made me say “that’s the one” send regular ones first.
-make assumptions about my dynamic with my hubs. Like “I’ll fuck you like he isn’t” or assuming he’s a cuck.
In person waiting until my hubs isn’t around to approach. Lurking around us the club when we have made it obvious there’s no interest.
Me: Looking for intelligent couples.
SM: Hi!
Me: Can you even read?
When they act like they've never been laid before. Don't act so thirsty and bounce from one to the next trying to find a hole to stick it in. Taking it a step further... because if what I do, and even as a hotwife before this job... talk like you would at a bar or grovery store cereal aisle with a woman that you are interested in. Tact and class
Are you sure you don't want a SM?
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