Me and my partner (MF) are thinking of visiting a swingers club, not to hook up with other people/ couples, but to be able to be sexy in a way we can't in public, and possibly have sex in front of other people. Does anyone have any advice or experience in this?

We are both 40ish, quite attractive people, my partner loves to dress up in sexy, classy lingerie and likes to show off. We love public sex and the idea that people might be watching, but we don't want to see ourselves uploaded to the Internet...

Is it acceptable to ignore other people's advances if we started getting it on in the club? Are people sometimes overbearing or pushy? Or would be able to be comfortable that people might just watch and enjoy the show?

Thank you in advance for any help or advice, we are taking this very seriously!