So me and my wife will be attending our first club for the first time ever. Whatâs going thru my mind is what if we are not into a couple or female that approach us? How do we politely decline their offer for extra curricular activities? Has anyone else had this issue or know how to do this in the best way possible?
Usually my hubs pulls the other male to the side and says âhey man sheâs not really into itâ. Do it sooner than later that way they can recover and find a playmate for the night.
Chances being as a newbie couple you may or may not be approached honestly. We werenât our first trip to the club. We had nervous newbie written all over us
If reply == (. . . .but) { block and move on!!!! )
One thing that we learned was that even starting a simple conversation people automatically think that youâre interested. If youâre not interested donât start a conversation or if responding keep it very short and move on. Iâm a very social person and used to speak with everyone and quickly found out that was a mistake
If reply == (. . . .but) { block and move on!!!! )
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Nope swingers are a pretty perceptive group overall.