My husband and I are relatively new with minimal experience. We have had a few threesomes, went to a sex club a few times. When we talk about things we seem to be on the same page. Yesterday we started talking to a couple. They seem like we would get along great. They were eager to meet and wanted to make a plan. We were good with making a plan to meet up. I asked what they had in mind and it sounded great. Meet somewhere where we could all chat and if things went well and the vibe was good go somewhere more private. I was fine with that plan bc I like to meet in person in public before going to someone’s house. They got held up and were going to be way later than originally expected and wanted to change the plan to meet at their house. I tried to talk to my husband about that and what he was planning on doing with this couple which then ruined the night we didn’t meet up and ended up fighting. I asked to make sure we were on the same page…. I get a little anxiety before meetups, not because I don’t want to go and do anything but because we are still new I never know what to expect and how things are going to go. I’m sure a lot of it is overthinking on my part but I just don’t want to end up in a situation where either of us are uncomfortable or don’t know what to do, I feel like we should meet neutrally first then make sure the vibe is there and everyone is dtf if that’s what is going to happen. He says he isn’t meeting up with anyone he wouldn’t, I’m not either based on pictures and some conversation, but people have been way different in person at times... He thinks I’m not ready, I disagree. Were you all nervous before meetups in the beginning. What is your protocol for meeting? How does it standardly work for you… I guess fear of the unknown and not wanting to hurt anyone’s feelings is what makes me anxious, I’m sure in time it gets easier. Any advice?