Hi all,

We were hoping to get some advice/review/critique on our profile/ad that we are looking to put up soon. Our situation is pretty unlikely to produce results given the time/place/circumstance. Just some background.

We were exploring swinging some last summer/fall, we met a couple, and a few guys, only played with 1 friend fully and another slightly (no piv). but when we got to a stage where we were doing a wider std test, the wife half found out she was hsv2 . Very surprised, we did a lot of research and did a western blot to confirm. She is asymptomatic, and the levels indicate she likely has had it for a while (unlikely to have contracted from our limited play experience). Husband is negative (after being together and only having unprotected sex together for 13 years). We put things on pause at that point, did some thinking and self-improvement (gym, diet, focusing on home/work). But we are looking to jump in again, hopefully for our upcoming staycation at the end of the month.

The issue is, we live in Hawaii and the swing community is not very active, and moreso, people are not greatly aware of hsv2. However, we have a moral obligation to disclose, but also don't want to waste people's time. Below is our current draft for our profile/ad and we were wondering if anyone with a similar situation might be able to add constructive criticism for us to improve our chances of successfully meeting people.

Below is our profile/ad that we are thinking of using for Feeld and the hawaiiswingers subreddit. Please let us know what you think!

👫 A*loha! *We're a friendly, married couple excited to explore new experiences together and with you.

💖 About Us:

• Her: 5’8” 130 lbs. Mixed White and Hispanic, 35, asymptomatic HSV-2 positive and open to questions! Transparency and respect are crucial.
• Him: 5’11” 170 lbs. Mixed Asian and White, 35, eager to explore new dynamics and fantasies with his partner.
• Both: We’ve been together for 13 years, are loving parents, professionals and respect all parties’ need for discretion on our small island. We are relaxed, playful, and warm, so a similar vibe is ideal. We are not looking for long-term dating situations, more so for friends to mingle and have fun in the bedroom. Full panel test this winter (no play since then).

🌟 What We're Looking For:

• Seeking a woman for playful adventures. Chemistry and mutual respect are key.
• Open to connecting with couples and bi men as well.
• Prefer HWP individuals, similar to ourselves, mutual attraction is a must, and a fun friendly personality adds greatly to our flexibility.

We are hoping to have fun during our time in Waikiki from June 28 thru July 4 (can host, drive, pick up, as needed). We do require some verification and would like to meet before play.

 Let's chat and see where the journey takes us!