So my husband (M33) and I (F33) have been in the lifestyle for about a year and a half. The last couple of months we have been having MFM threesomes with this single guy that we met. He’s the first to pop our single guy cherry. He is a ton of fun to be around and his personality really drew us in.

Well…..this past weekend was our third time hooking up with him.

The first time was super hot and heavy. We all were pretty nervous initially, but things turned out great. My husband and him really worked well together and drove me crazy. Hubby really took the reins and provided guidance to him on how to please me. It was all so hot.

So the second time, my husband just wanted to voyeur and record. We really noticed that he is a bit of a minute man I guess. He would go from jack hammering to stopping momentarily just to keep his orgasm at bay. Once he orgasmed, he just hung back and chills like he’s the fucking man and just kind of leaves me hanging without at least assisting me to cum. Like at least eat me out or something dude. He took like a 20 minute break and then dove back him and started eating me out. He still was fucking like a novice. My husband noticed that I wasn’t quite getting pleasured enough despite my coaching, so hubby came in and helped out thankfully. But the next day, he messages us and in the conversations he was talking big shit like he fucked me so good and he thought he really put in work. 🙄 My husband and I were really confused like Who was he fucking good? Cause it sure wasn’t me! Delusional much?

So the third time was this past weekend. Again he is a really nice guy and fun to be around. He has a pretty submissive personality. I’m talking a human golden retriever and I wanted to give him another shot by switching up our play dynamic. Me hubby and I are also into the BDSM scene, so I decided to dominate him and had a decent time with that. He made a really great sub. I edged him like crazy and I allowed him to fuck me. He came, like 30 seconds later lol we all kind of blamed it on the edging. As he was recharging, I fucked my husband while he recorded. I gave them both blow jobs, and edge him a ton more by riding his dick and giving him a sensual dick massage. Later that night my husband and I went like two more rounds on our own. Reclaiming sex is the best! So anyway the next day he messages us about leaving his food and cock ring at our house. I told him it’s understandable because he was freaking exhausted afterwards. I’m thinking he was gonna say something along the lines of “Baby you were a fucking rockstar and worse me out” Wishful thinking 🙄 He started going on and on like “yea I was really putting in that work” “I was busy pleasing my Goddess”. Like wtf! Dude you literally did nothing. I fucked the shit out of him AND my husband. I came three times that night thanks to good ol’ hubby.

This guy is delusional as fuck! Like who is he kidding. After that we are done with him. He has a killer personality but a selfish fuck. Have you guys encountered delusional partners like this? They hype up their performance and don’t give credit where it’s due? How did you handle it? Did you cut them off?