Over the last year, my wife revealed that she’s bi and that she’s looking to try to explore that sexual side while still staying together. We’re looking to experiment with a FMF threesome so that she can explore that side without excluding me. Since this is all so new, we’re exploring the best way to find someone (but that’s probably a separate post). 😆

In the meantime, I thought it could be good to find a “stepping stone” activity before going right into a threesome. I brought up the idea of going to a NYC swinger party (was considering Checkmate) to be in a sexual environment with other people.

Having never been to a party like this, I’m trying to gauge how laid back parties are. We both don’t want to feel pressured to do anything and we’re also not looking to have any couples experiences.

Any thoughts or suggestions for us? Thanks in advance.