So my husband and I (both late 40âs) are re-entering the lifestyle however this time itâs a bit different as I have alopecia and now wear wigs. The wigs are basically undetectable unless they are accidentally removed, like hair pulling.
So our questions are these:
Do we tell? Or do I just have a boundary of no touching my hair? My concern with this is being really into the moment and my wig gets moved or shifted and they realize they are actually fucking a bald chick.
When do we tell? I donât really want to put that in our profile or introduce myself âhi Iâm OP, Iâm bald, wanna get naked?
All joking aside, I love my wigs, they give me so much confidence and they are so fun. I donât feel comfortable going bald.
Would this be a deal breaker for most? When and how would you like to be told?
Wouldnât bother a bit. I would disclose closer to when weâre deciding on a play date.
âHey, I have alopecia and wear a wig when we play please donât pull my hairâ most wouldnât bat an eye I would think.
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