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I’m going to weigh in on this subject , five years into the lifestyle. Hot people attract hot people. We attend some of the events in which 90% are overweight or just plain ugly and we always get the hottest people there. Why you may ask , process of elimination. My good looking wife played with the hottest young women I’ve ever seen . She was a freaking model, seriously . This happened because everyone else just wasn’t as good looking and we are really old , 47 and 60 . I’m at the gym daily This happens all the time. Also men aren’t as picky but women tend to want a step up from their partner

We’re “fit” go to the gym frequently. We eat very healthy. We do this for longevity both in vanilla and LS we want to get the most out of this life as long as we can.

On the flip side NO WHERE on our LS profile do we say “fit” gym or anything about it. We are who we are the pictures say it.

We also don’t have “seeking HWP or fit people” we’re attracted to all kinds and want anyone who’s attracted to us to shoot their shot. (Except single males and Well I prefer my Studs to be thoroughbreds)

It's not the gym as much as it is the table.

Obesity is a huge health problem in the world.

Swinger population isn't much different.

We just work on ourselves and find people we're attracted to, odds are they share some of our mindset too at least on health.

As a former fat swinger, and as someone not attracted to fat, I realized I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't get in shape. Lots of benefits to my life beyond that too. It motivated me. Perhaps if it was my thing, I never would have had that motivation.

But there is diminishing returns and when a couple is extremely tryhard I figure we don't share those sort of values in some ways and probably won't get along. We aren't what they're looking for.

And that's not shaming anyone they like what they like we like what we like.