Me (59m) and my wife (58) married for better and worse, 35 years. Our kids are grown and on their own. Our sex is very good and she is blessed with being a multiple orgasmer and I help out any way I can. I'm living proof 6 inches, a skilled tounge, and culinary capabilities get it done lol. We've joked over years with things attributed to the LS. She's been through a lot and is a great person, mother and wife. I've no problem her enjoying a cock half my age and more endowed. I say a cock and not a "guy" because that's all he is as i see it. I've had my share of dalliances, she deserves some. She also gets hit on by women what I consider frequently. I'd be willing to participle at any level she approved of. QUESTION: How do I even brach this whole idea with out damaging my marriage and causing issues? Please tell me how others in similar positions handled it. Thanks in advance:)
I'm gunna be blunt.
You've been together 35 years.
You are asking random people on the internet how to talk to your wife?
What have you been doing those 35 years.
You know her.
Find out if she has any fantasies, if she won't say or says none, ask her if she ever wanted a threesome, if it would be fun to be the center of attention? Make it about her not your needs.
You should know how she responds better than ANYONE on the planet.
Poorly placed retort being I'm the swinger, going to swinger parties, and you don't know how to talk to your own wife without fear or ruining your relationship after 35 years.
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You need a thick skin for swinging, you might want to rethink this.