Hi guys,

Long time lurker and occasional poster here. Love the vibe here. My wife and I are thinking about posting a message on a swinger site / app (sdc or feeld) looking for adventurous friends here in the Netherlands. I would like some feedback from you lovely people before I post it.. What needs more explanation or something that stands out. Every form of help is appreciated. Thanks in advance. This is the message we thought of posting :

" Hello everyone, We (m39 and f38) are looking for friends with possible benefits. We live in the north of the country and are therefore also looking for fellow Northerners (Fryslan boppe). We have experience with spontaneous threesomes (with another man) and are now looking for friendships. Connection is very important to us. First see yourself spiritually naked before we possibly go on a physical adventure.

He (m38) is a broadly built man with a Viking-like look (bald, beard) and loves strength training, gaming and a good book. Is bi-curious (likes to play with dicks but doesn't care much for the man himself). She (f38) is a slim woman with long blond hair. She can also appreciate a good book, but being creative and doing jobs around the house is also part of her arsenal. She is straight and has not experienced any bi-curiosities so far.

What we bring: * playful * sensitive (both HSP) * profound * fun * positive * Open * honestly * a deep meaningful conversation

What we are looking for: * man or couple between 25 - 45 * curious and playful * lover of sensuality * sociable and likes to connect * respectful * open and honest * reflective and profound * hygienic and well cared for * person(s) who can appreciate a deep spiritual conversation and also has a thing for people like Byron Katie, Eckhart Tolle, David Hawkins, Michael Singer, Gabrielle Bernstein, Esther Perel, Brene Brown.

The approach is therefore not so much sex but rather a connection that could possibly develop into something with a click. Better friendship than quick sex. We are quite direct and if we don't "feel" it, we will communicate that. That does not mean that you are not nice as a person, but rather that there is no chemistry. No need for dick pics or Pic hunting. There is no response to that. Thanks for reading and maybe see you soon.

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