We’ve (30M 26F, 30M writing) gone to a handful of LS resorts / clubs. All of the places we’ve gone haven’t admitted single men. This past weekend we went to Secrets in Florida, where they admit 10 single males a day / night, for about $400 with the membership and ticket. We encountered 2.

The first one was in the hot tub. He didn’t interact with us directly, but he did stroke his dick while staring at us and other couples, and kept talking to one couple until they got up and left. Thankfully he finally got up and left but we saw him later still creepily stroking and looking at couples.

The second one was the next day in the pool. He approached us while we were in the pool and introduced himself, we did a bit of small talk and then I said “well nice to meet you” hoping that would get him to leave. I don’t like being rude to anyone, and LS folks have been so nice that it seems like I should be too, even to single males. He did leave, and then me and my partner were kissing / being touchy about an hour later and he reappeared. We basically had the same conversation again and he was getting closer and closer to my partner (we were both nude, he was not) and we walked away. (I was much ruder this time, I told him he should find a woman to come to places like this with) Hours later he came back a third time, directly to my partner while I was getting drinks, and I said in a raised voice “we’re not interested, leave us alone”. This didn’t ruin the trip for us at all but was annoying and my partner took a bit to feel comfortable again.

So, after this, I just really feel like single males shouldn’t be admitted to LS clubs / resorts. I know they are a cash cow, but I’d pay a premium (as I did at Desire) so that they aren’t admitted. If a guy can’t find a woman accompany him, why would he do better at the resort / club itself? The only scenario where I imagine it would be ok is if a couple or woman organized in advance for a single man to come, and he must come with them.

Finally, my advice to single men who want to go to LS clubs / resorts: fuck off. Don’t come. Find a woman to come with you.