Hello my wife and I are both 51 and have been in the Lifestyle about four years. We've all but given up on dating other couples, or establishing long-term relationships within the lifestyle for a variety of reasons stemming from the difficulty of jogging four schedules to people demanding too much time and attention or simply getting weird in a variety of ways.

But we love getting away to lifestyle events, resorts, and even places that aren't full out swinger resorts but offer ample opportunities.

We've been to Naughty in New Orleans, EDM and Sea Mountain in Palm Springs, a ton of clubs and events in Vegas, several resorts in Jamaica, Key West, Amsterdam, Germany that at least offered a quasi lifestyle vibe. We are heading to Alaska soon but have struggled to find much of a scene anywhere up there. Later this year we have several trips planned because our mission is to fuck each other in every state and if we find friends to join all the better.

But as we look toward 2024 and places to go we wondered what like minded people would suggest beyond Hedo, Desire, and the obvious choices.