It's 90% based off looks. We don't mean to be rude but my husband provides everything that I need on the emotional side so all I'm looking for is physical.

Typically the more a single male talks the more they walk themselves off the plank.

A huge issue is people simply don't listen to instructions of what you're seeking. If we're looking for a couple, there's no need for you to shoot your shot, there's no need to introduce yourself, there's no need to even message. Now when we post we are looking for a male, please send a good photograph, and articulate response, and if we're not interested we will at least be polite about it.

Also keep in mind some couples like a certain subject as the title because that ultimately shows if you even read what they're looking for.

Personality. If he just wants to talk about sex and what he wants, he's not going to be fun. I'd rather hear about what he wants to do for me. I like a confident man who can humble himself long enough to worship me for a while. I often pick men in real life who I would never choose online, just because of their personality.