Me (F) was having a chat with (F) of another couple on SDC last week and it seemed to be going well.. asked if they wanted to meet for a drink. She said she would chat with her hubby when he got back. Didn’t hear from her the rest of day except one comment. Went to start the conversation again this morning and their entire profile is gone. Message string gone and they are nowhere to be found. It’s wild to me the amount of people who put themselves out there on an app for connecting with other couples and then just completely flake and disappear…
Rant over…
Crazy part… she contacted us first 🙄
Been there in every iteration. Some downright unfathomable in motivation.
Crazy part… she contacted us first 🙄
Been there in every iteration. Some downright unfathomable in motivation.
You can talk to established couples with a network of real friends and testimonials/certs.
If some new couple shows up you can be skeptical.
Half of our validations are from people we met not played with.
We need to break people out of believing it’s kissing and telling.
It’s verifying two people meet up together and are real.
Crazy part… she contacted us first 🙄
Been there in every iteration. Some downright unfathomable in motivation.
But why? Is it so hard to just say.. “not interested”
Some people actually use block to never see people they reject or aren’t into. I think it’s weird but people do it.
I kind of get it because my local online now is cluttered with people I really don’t want to keep seeing but I don’t want to block them cause of that.
Validations are the one thing that really improves the community and trust in talking to couples.
People who intentionally don’t display them or give them I think are doing a disservice.
Really seemed like the female.. even sent face pics. They hangout at the same lake and lake hangouts of us per the person I was talking to. So won’t be too hard to identify them.. which is really odd…
But why? Is it so hard to just say.. “not interested”
Some people actually use block to never see people they reject or aren’t into. I think it’s weird but people do it.
I kind of get it because my local online now is cluttered with people I really don’t want to keep seeing but I don’t want to block them cause of that.
Then you go to a meet and greet and get validations.
🙄🙄🙄🙄
Yes… I feel like we might not be as attractive as we hope we are 😂😂 funny thing is when we go to parties and events we have 0 trouble! 😂
Which is fine but deleting the entire acct? That seems sus..
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Very annoying… I guess with apps it’s easy to hide and then poof you’re gone.. no commitment..